HER CARD — "The Anonymous" (quick reference) RULE: No names. No questions about you. You set this, out loud, first. BEATS 1. Sit apart. Talk about anything but yourself. Look away first. 2. Let him close one seat of distance. Say nothing about who you are. 3. He touches your wrist. Turn it over — your first yes. 4. Take his hand. Leave without a plan spoken aloud. 5. Let hands and mouths move over clothes — don't rush to undress. 6. Face away (glass/wall/headboard). Let him have you. Let a sound out you'd normally hold. ANCHOR LINE "I'd like to not be anyone at all." ...and later: "Please." REMEMBER You are choosing this, every step. Withholding your name is power, not passivity.